In 2017, the Reds will probablyÃ‚Â lose more games than they’ll win. I’m OK with that. Even though I hope to experience another Red October sooner rather than later, the past three years have reminded me that there’s still great joy to be had from losing seasons — I’d rather have bad baseball than no baseball at all, in other words — and I’m excited to see how the next six months will play out, regardless of the team’s final record.
In fact, I’ve learned there’s a certain zen that comes from following a losing team. There’s no pressure, no teeth-gritting, no cold sweats — just pure, unrequited devotion that doesn’t waver based on the outcome of a particular game or the team’s position in the standings. It truly doesn’t matter if they win or lose today, as either way, I’ll still be excited to see what happens tomorrow. (Perhaps this line of thinking explains how Cubs fans survived the team’s century-long championship drought.)
In contrast, I remember being a nervous wreck during the 2010, 2012 and 2013 seasons. Living on the West Coast, most Reds games began at 4 p.m. local time. I’m sure my productivity plummeted in the final hours of the weekdays on which the Reds played, but my Twitter usage certainly skyrocketed. From there, I’d monitor in-progress games during the slowdowns of my perpetually gridlocked commutes home; I’d receive angry glares from my wife as I scrolled for updates during dinner; and if they lost, I’d get upset and complain about whatever went wrong, which didn’t make me very fun to be around for about 45% of the season.
Bottom line, I took things too personally, something I’ve tried to avoid doing over the past three years. I still have room for improvement — bunting and peculiar bullpen management remain my Achilles’ heels — but if the Reds win, great. If not, that’s OK too. Don’t get me wrong — I always prefer the former scenario — but nowadays, I try to enjoy the journey regardless of the destination.
That said, here are some tips that might help a few of you appreciate this season a bit more, wins and losses be darned:
1. Hope For The Best, Plan For The Worst
Of course, we’d all love for the Reds to go 162-0. But what if they go 4-158? That won’t happen, of course, but I remember going winless during one of my final seasons of little league and enjoying the experience regardless. If you don’t have high expectations, it’s hard to end up feeling disappointed.
2. Look For Silver Linings
With such a young roster, it’s inevitable that some players will underachieve. Others will experience painful situations both metaphorical (learning curves) and literal (injuries). Surely a handful of players will surprise us, though, just as Adam Duvall did last year. Whether it’s Robert Stephenson finally fulfilling his potential, Devin Mesoraco regaining his 2014 swing, or Bronson Arroyo schooling hitters half his age, there are multiple storylines in 2017 with potentially promising payoffs.
3. Let It Go
One team will win. The otherÃ‚Â will lose. Either way, they’ll play again tomorrow. Don’t let what happened in yesterday’s game detract from how much you’ll enjoy today’s.
4. Enjoy It While It Lasts
I strongly believe that in life, it’s important to always have something to look forward to. That said, even on the roughest of mornings, I find it just a bit easier to get out of bed if I know the Reds will play that day. Off-days, much less the offseason, simply aren’t as much fun — and before we know it, the 2017 season will be over and we’ll be debating where Eugenio Suarez should play in 2018 instead of being able to watch him play like we can for the next six months.
I imagine there will be plenty of empty seats at Great American Ball Park this year. While it’s exciting to be surrounded by a passionate sold-out crowd that echoes your own cheers, there’s also something to be said for the opportunity to sneak up a few rows and take in a better view.
6. Bragging Rights
Without meaning to sound snobby, rough patches tend to weed out non-believers. By hanging in there during the rebuild, you’ll witness the foundation of the next great Reds team come together and enjoy the eventual payoff that much more. (Yes, the Kool-Aid is delicious, thank you very much.)
7. Remember The Out-Of-Towners
As things stand now, I’ll get to watch the Reds play in person just five or six times this year. I’m jealous of those of you who can see the team more often and who, unlike me, are used to being surrounded by fans wearing red when you do. Even if you can’t make all 81 home games this year, however, don’t discount the joy ofÃ‚Â being able to root, root, root for the Redlegs in person. Yes, if they don’t win, it’s a shame — but it’d be even more of a shame if that prospect keeps you away.
Clay – +1 or perhaps +81 on point number 7. I’ve been a diehard Reds fan since 1972 and have never lived in Cincinnati. Atlanta now, Boston before that. We get to one weekend series a year in Cincinnati, plus (usually) a couple of games here against the Braves. Hardly enough to nourish me through a full season. So to those of you loyal RLN types who are in or near Cincinnati – go to the games. Cheer. Cry. Eat. Drink. Pray. Cheer some more. Enjoy. I’m jealous and us out of owners are counting on you to make the most of your proximity to GABP. Wish I could be there in the next seat. Go Reds!
Thanks for the comment. I seem to have struck a chord with my fellow long-distance fans! I hope you enjoy the games you’ll see this season.
Very well said Clay. It really resonated with me and reflected my thoughts and feelings as a long time Reds fan living in Iowa. Hoping to make a few games in Cincinnati and also see them in Milwaukee and St. Louis. Not Chicago though…I just don’t feel like being around Cubs fans this year. 🙂
Everyone deserves to have their team win it all once, so I’m giving Cubs fans a one-year pass to enjoy their moment. Since I’ve never seen a game in either city, I’m curious — do you prefer watching behind enemy lines in Milwaukee or St. Louis?
Can’t speak for the new Brewers stadium, but the couple times I went to the old County stadium back in the AL days, that was a friendly crowd. It’s Wisconsin, they tailgated for baseball even back in the 90s.
Lucky for me I live just a little north of Milwaukee so I get to see several games since we are in the same division. I agree with the statement of watching now and I wanted to add fall in love with new players we have now cause some of them are going to be the next group of contenders. I am already huge fans of
Will all these players be part of the next winning or contending team. I hope so cause if they are not this is going to be a long rebuild.
I like to joke that if/when I leave Los Angeles, I’ll have to end up in another National League city — but you make a good point that I might want to consider an NL Central market if that city isn’t Cincy!
I live in Milwaukee as well. Looking forward to going to at least one game while they’re in town in a couple weeks. In the past its always been battle for last place in the division, but with Reds and Brewers both stocked up on young talent that may be changing very soon.
Last year I tried taunting my brother-in-law who lives in Milwaukee when the Reds were heading in to play the Brew Crew late in the season. His text reply was classic – “That’s like choosing between dog pooh and cat pooh – which is worse?”
My family been Reds fans since the 1960’s & myself since 1979..All from NJ! I have wonderful stories of just trying to see a few minutes of a game on This week in baseball, holding aluminum foil on my parents digital radio out my bedroom window & hearing WLW one Sunday when my friends were all out playing, but Marty or Joe said in the bottom of the ninth down one, “We need a bloop and a blast” got the bloop & Tony Perez hit the game winning HR! Plenty more stories to share. Go Reds, from NJ
Thanks for reading/sharing. It’s amazing how hard it used to be to watch or follow games when you didn’t live in a team’s home market. I’d hate to know how many hours I wasted as a child watching the ESPN ticker in hopes of getting a score update.
Doesn’t happen too often but I’ll get to see the Reds at the Trop in June.
Happy to hear it! I’ve driven past the Trop a few times but never made it inside. In fact, I think I’ve only seen games at two AL ballparks — Angel Stadium (where the Reds played for just the second time last year) and Fenway, where I caught a game back in high school.
Give me a shot of Kool Aid.I am all in just like I have been since the 60’s.I can lose with youngsters playing but we have a much better roster then last year and expect us to surprise a few folks.I could see us close to 500 because if you back at the last half of 2016 up to now we are right there.Let the youngsters play and lets see what happens.Go Reds,
I too was encouraged by the second half of last year, but I feared this year’s starting rotation was paper-thin. The first week of the season was certainly cause for optimism, though. Here’s hoping the veterans won’t get too much playing time at the expense of the youngsters.
Agree with everything. Playing with house money is the greatest. Well get a winner soon enough.
Just moved to Portland so San Fran is the closest for me this year (no Mariners games) which probably isn’t happening. Pretty depressing.
Thanks for reading! It’s never easy for me to get to Dodger Stadium on a weeknight, but that drive pales in comparison to your commute to Portland. I’ve still only seen a couple of games in San Francisco myself, one of which I’ll touch on in a future column.
I’m not even sure I could stomach going to a game there after that 2012 series. They earned the spot of #2 most disliked team for me. Broke my heart when Cueto signed there.
Clay, great tips. It takes effort to keep things in perspective with regards to our beloved Reds. Living in Hawaii makes it difficult to watch the Reds in person, thank goodness for MLB.TV. Usually plan a vacation to watch the Reds play every year, but haven’t done it the last few years. With Arroyo back (wife’s favorite player), she is planning a Reds trip somewhere this summer. Go Reds!
Wow, Hawaii! I enjoy day games because they’re usually over by the time I have lunch here on the West Coast, but in your case, they’re probably nearly done by the time you wake up. Enjoy your upcoming vacation, and thanks for reading!
I’ve come close on several occasions to taking quick trips to Denver while the Reds just happen to be in town (ahem), but I’ve never pulled the trigger. Someday, hopefully.
Apologies if I seemed pessimistic while trying to write something that was supposed to be optimistic! I agree the Reds have the potential to surprise if they can bridge the gap between now and the returns of Bailey and Disco, but even if they don’t, I hope to enjoy this season just the same.
Clay I feel you were and are being optimistic about this year’s team because you were spot on regarding your comments especially number 6.Its great to be able to look back and remember where you came from once you reach your goal.
Clay – Great bullet points! Try to remember your sage advice when it’s your sons/daughters playing. My kids were through playing and I hadn’t stopped to enjoy the ride and enjoy their experience. I got so wound up with winning/losing, making it to the next level, critiquing their performance, etc. that I forgot that my kids must first develop a passion for the game! I was not a screamer or someone that harassed their coach, but I would quietly stew & fret and was not good at #3 – “Let it go!”
I’m trying my hardest not to be a stereotypical little league dad, and so far, so-so, I’d say. It’s harder during basketball (which isn’t his best sport) than baseball or soccer, though. The start of his baseball season corresponds with the start of the Reds’ season, which makes it easily my favorite time of the year.
Thanks for the comment. I broke my arm during my one and only year of t-ball, but that was luckily too early to be competitive. I also have a hitless teammate story — the year after t-ball, there was a kid named Davey who routinely swung after the ball was already in the catcher’s mitt. He was 0-for-the season until one day, he got hit by a pitch. “Hit Davey!” became our de facto rallying cry. (We were apparently Masochists Incorporated.)